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Gold Toi et Moi Necklace

Gold Toi et Moi Necklace

$128
YOU & ME GEMSTONE NECKLACE IN GOLD VERMEIL
4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
23 Reviews
23 REVIEWS
MaterialVermeil
Grand Baguette Pendant Gemstone
Aura Birthstone Pendant Gemstone
Length Size Help
MADE TO ORDER: Handcrafted within 4-7 business days
Gold Toi et Moi Necklace

A classic then, a classic now.



Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.



Choose two subtle birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one—and wear with anything and everything. We specifically chose these birthstones to be muted and easy to style, so you can love them for a lifetime.



To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in sterling silver and solid gold.

 

Please note: We intentionally curated this palette using a variety of lab-made stones and natural gemstones (see product details for more info). Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.
○Stone size: 6x4mm baguette and 3mm round
○Stones in order by month: garnet zirconia, natural amethyst, lab grown blue topaz, lab-grown white sapphire, emerald green spinel, natural rainbow moonstone, subtle ruby crystal, sage green spinel, midnight sapphire crystal, pink tourmaline crystal, natural citrine, indigo tanzanite crystal
○Adjustable 16-18" Dainty Cable chain (1.2mm wide)
○14k Gold Vermeil
Vermeil (ver - may)
Vermeil (ver - may)
Ease of care: 5/5

More premium than traditional gold plating, vermeil is an extra thick layer of real gold over solid sterling silver. We use 14k or 18k gold depending on the piece.

Want even more details about materials? Check this out.

  1. Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
  2. Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
  3. Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.

Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don't have a ruler handy).

Returns
Didn't absolutely love your jewelry? Send it back for a refund (minus an $8 shipping & handling fee) within 30 days of your delivery date. Your return will be processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your return.

Exchanges
Need a different size, want to change your personalization or prefer a totally different item? Send it back and we'll give you store credit (in a digital gift card) to use whenever — free up to 6 months, processed as soon as your return package is shipped.

Repairs
We offer free repairs for up to 6 months (for most items) or up to 3 years for solid gold, processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your piece(s). Pricing varies on older orders.

Final Sale
Returns and exchanges aren't available for final sale items.

GLDN GIVING PROGRAM

We're proud to donate 10% of profits to empowering organizations that help defend rights and freedoms, promote mental wellness, support the arts and more causes near and dear to us.

USA Sourced Raw materials
100% USA sourced
Recycled Made from recycled
gold and silver
Handmade Handmade for you
in our WA. studio
FAQS

All you need to know about the Gold Toi et Moi Necklace.

Find answers to our most-asked questions here, from care tips to jewelry options and more.

How do I care for this piece of jewelry?

Since it depends on which metal you chose, see our care tips blog and help center for detailed instructions on how to care for specific metals and gemstones. (Spoiler: all of our pieces require very minimal upkeep and occasional polishing, and can basically be worn 24/7 if you keep them away from harsh cleansers, chlorine and chemicals.)

What are the shipping options for this piece?

It varies based on where you are in the world, and whether the piece is marked made-to-order or ready-to-ship. See our shipping page for specific arrival times.

Can I return this piece? What’s the return policy?

Yes! We have a full happiness guarantee for every piece, even personalized ones. See our Return Policies for full info on returns, repairs and exchanges.

Are these colors different than traditional birthstones?

This piece (along with the rest of the Aura Birthstones) offer a fresh take on traditional birthstones: a more subtle, refined color for everyday wear. They're inspired by the birthstones of the past, but made for modern-day.

Why are these colors different than traditional birthstone colors?

We thought birthstones were in time for an upgrade. While we took inspiration from the traditional shades and didn't stray too far, we gave them a modern twist: subtler shades that actually stack well together and look good worn 24/7.

4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
Based on 23 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 20 Total 4 star reviews: 1 Total 3 star reviews: 1 Total 2 star reviews: 1 Total 1 star reviews: 0
91%would recommend this product
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    laurel
    5 minutes ago
    Reviewing
    Gold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Serene Amethyst (Feb.) / Sunshine Citrine (Nov.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 Stars

    I love this necklace! Such a pretty design and the perfect length! Im glad I got it and will wear it for a long time (:

    I do wish however they had the option to buy a longer chain so you could layer the necklace with more things and was surprised that the purple amythest for February is more purple than it looks in the pictures.

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  • JP
    Jordyn P.
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    Bought For Myself
    Yesterday
    Bought For Myself
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    Gold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Forest Emerald (May) / Midnight Sapphire (Sep.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    So special!

    This Gldn necklace is so special - my husband got it with my birthstone and my daughter’s and gave it to me when we got home from the hospital after her birth. 10/10 recommend!

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  • MS
    Micaela S.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    2 days ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Gold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Vintage Garnet (Jan.) / White Moonstone (Jun.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    love it

    Tihs necklace is so meaningful to me and I wear it all the time. Every time I wear it I get compliments (even on zoom meetings!!). Great quality, very happy with purchase

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    YANEXI
    1 week ago
    Reviewing
    Gold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Forest Emerald (May) / Sunshine Citrine (Nov.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 Stars

    Simply delicately crafted. I bought for my daughter in law during her pregnancy to celebrate her first Mother’s Day. A meaningful gift.

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  • CR
    Christine R.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For A Gift
    2 weeks ago
    Bought For A Gift
    Reviewing
    Gold Toi et Moi Necklace Vermeil / Vintage Garnet (Jan.) / Midnight Sapphire (Sep.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Perfect gift

    Beautiful gift idea!

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