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Silver Toi et Moi Necklace

$118
YOU & ME NECKLACE IN STERLING SILVER
5.0
Rated 5.0 out of 5 stars
11 Reviews
11 REVIEWS
MaterialSterling Silver
Grand Baguette Pendant Gemstone
Aura Birthstone Pendant Gemstone
Length Size Help
MADE TO ORDER: Handcrafted within 4-7 business days
Silver Toi et Moi Necklace

A classic then, a classic now.

 

Translating to “you & me” in French, toi et moi jewelry has been around since the 1700s (romantic, right?) but you’ve never seen it done quite like this.

 

Choose two subtle birthstones—one to represent you, one to represent your loved one—and wear with anything and everything. We specifically chose these birthstones to be muted and easy to style, so you can love them for a lifetime.

 

To order, choose a Grand Baguette birthstone (that’s the larger pendant) and an Aura birthstone (that’s the smaller pendant)! Also available in gold vermeil and solid gold.

 

Please note: We intentionally curated this palette using a variety of lab-made stones and natural gemstones (see product details for more info). Expect natural variances in color across pieces; no two gemstones are alike, and may not mirror the photos exactly.

6x4mm baguette and 3mm round gemstone
Stones in order by month: garnet zirconia, natural amethyst, lab grown blue topaz, lab-grown white sapphire, emerald green spinel, natural rainbow moonstone, subtle ruby crystal, sage green spinel, midnight sapphire crystal, pink tourmaline crystal, natural citrine, indigo tanzanite crystal
Adjustable 16-18" Dainty Cable chain (1.2mm wide)
Sterling Silver
Sterling Silver
Sterling Silver
Ease of care: 4/5

Solid, precious metal that lasts forever. It darkens with time, but can be polished up. Oils from your skin help prevent silver tarnish... so wear it often!

Want even more details about materials? Check this out.

  1. Find a tool to use (string, dental floss, headphone cord, measuring tape if you have it).
  2. Find the length by wrapping it around your neck and marking it (for pendants, imagine the jewelry lower, for suspended, it should be in line).
  3. Check the length against a ruler or lay it out flat and measure with a phone app.

Alternatively: Measure an existing necklace end to end with a ruler (most accurate) or a phone app (great if you don't have a ruler handy).

Returns
Didn't absolutely love your jewelry? Send it back for a refund (minus an $8 shipping & handling fee) within 30 days of your delivery date. Your return will be processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your return.

Exchanges
Need a different size, want to change your personalization or prefer a totally different item? Send it back and we'll give you store credit (in a digital gift card) to use whenever — free up to 6 months, processed as soon as your return package is shipped.

Repairs
We offer free repairs for up to 6 months (for most items) or up to 3 years for solid gold, processed 1-2 weeks after we receive your piece(s). Pricing varies on older orders.

Final Sale
Returns and exchanges aren't available for final sale items.

GLDN GIVING PROGRAM

We're proud to donate 10% of profits to empowering organizations that help defend rights and freedoms, promote mental wellness, support the arts and more causes near and dear to us.

USA Sourced Raw materials
100% USA sourced
Recycled Made from recycled
gold and silver
Handmade Handmade for you
in our WA. studio
FAQS

All you need to know about the Silver Toi et Moi Necklace.

Find answers to our most-asked questions here, from care tips to jewelry options and more.

How do I care for this piece of jewelry?

Since it depends on which metal you chose, see our care tips blog and help center for detailed instructions on how to care for specific metals and gemstones. (Spoiler: all of our pieces require very minimal upkeep and occasional polishing, and can basically be worn 24/7 if you keep them away from harsh cleansers, chlorine and chemicals.)

What are the shipping options for this piece?

It varies based on where you are in the world, and whether the piece is marked made-to-order or ready-to-ship. See our shipping page for specific arrival times.

Can I return this piece? What’s the return policy?

Yes! We have a full happiness guarantee for every piece, even personalized ones. See our Return Policies for full info on returns, repairs and exchanges.

Are these colors different than traditional birthstones?

This piece (along with the rest of the Aura Birthstones) offer a fresh take on traditional birthstones: a more subtle, refined color for everyday wear. They're inspired by the birthstones of the past, but made for modern-day.

Why are these colors different than traditional birthstone colors?

We thought birthstones were in time for an upgrade. While we took inspiration from the traditional shades and didn't stray too far, we gave them a modern twist: subtler shades that actually stack well together and look good worn 24/7.

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11 reviews
  • MA
    Michael A.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For A Gift
    4 days ago
    Bought For A Gift
    Reviewing
    Silver Toi et Moi Necklace
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Gorgeous

    A little smaller than I was expecting but it really is so gorgeous

  • KA
    Karissa A.
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    Bought For A Gift
    1 week ago
    Bought For A Gift
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    Silver Toi et Moi Necklace
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Silver gemstone necklace

    I got this necklace for my sister to celebrate her first Mother’s Day and she loved it! Would highly recommend as a sweet, memorable gift.

  • GF
    Grace F.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    1 week ago
    Bought For Myself
    Reviewing
    Silver Toi et Moi Necklace
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Stunning, Dainty and Better Than I Expected

    I own multiple GLDN pieces and this has to be one of my favourites! It’s so dainty and cute. I got my own, and my child’s birthstone. It’s such a simple way to have something on for your child, or loved one but without being in your face. The stones are so cute and small, but beautifully coloured. I love it!

  • SR
    Samantha R. S.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For A Gift
    2 weeks ago
    Bought For A Gift
    Reviewing
    Silver Toi et Moi Necklace Sterling Silver / Clear Sapphire (Apr.) / Forest Emerald (May)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Beautiful Piece

    Purchased as a gift for my grandmother. My Grandpa just passed away and wanted to gift her something in honor of him for her birthday coming up. His is April with the white sapphire and hers was May. My only wish is being able to purchase the baguette charms individually.

  • JL
    Jordan L.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For A Gift
    2 weeks ago
    Bought For A Gift
    Reviewing
    Silver Toi et Moi Necklace Sterling Silver / Forest Emerald (May) / Airy Aquamarine (Mar.)
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Super cute for moms!

    Got this for my mom for her birthday and it is so cute! Added an extra aura birthstone so she has her birthstone, mine, and my sister's.